In Memory of my Brother Shane….
Wednesday, August 25th, 2010Good Afternoon,
Well as you know I love to talk and for the people that I have met or spoken with on the phone could confirm this as well. But there are somethings in my life I find very hard to talk about and one in particular……. Which is I have a brother, he passed away in a car accident just shy of his 18th birthday in 2003. His name is Shane, and after having some what of a break down on his birthday last year I have since been able to have photos of him around the house and speak about him on the odd occasion, it’s not that I don’t want to, but the pain when I do, it just eats away at me. Since cardmaking every year I have wanted to make a card for him for his birthday, but nothing really stood out and being as sensitive as it is I wanted to make something perfect. See the thing about my brother is this…….
- He was SO tall,
- He was an amazing basketball player and played for the Jr. Melbourne Tigers and went to China because of it.
- He had a laugh that you could only laugh at, so loud and he didn’t care.
- He absolutely adored his niece *my daughter Kira* and would had done anything for her.
- All his clothing, EVEN his socks had to a brand name, nike, adidas etc…… Drove me MAD hehe, always having to have the best of everything, but he was a perfectionist in that ways and that is why I knew his card would have to be PERFECT or more so the perfect image.
- He cared for his family more than ANY thing in the world.
When I asked Marina she was only too happy and I really can not thank her enough for this and what she has done for not only myself but for my family as well, that now claim they want me to make them one *rolls eyes* THANK YOU so much Marina.
When I wanted to make this I had all these ideas. Shane’s team were black, yellow and red…….soooooo not my colours to work with but I just KNEW they were the colours to use and then I hit a brick wall and I think it was because of this, always so hard to look outside your little comfort box you have around yourself and after trying and trying I decided a sketch was in order, I just could not help it, it wasn’t working. So I used a sketch from Sweet Spot as they have amazing sketchers, and here is what I came up with…..
I have had that Tigers pom pom for I don’t know how long and the little wooden Micheal Jordon figure is out of wood and was given as some type of trophy when Shane was in China, one of his many his pride and joys.
Shane would had been 25 on the 30th September this year. Not a day goes by where he’s not in my thoughts and I miss him dearly. His basketball number was 8 and I was not meant to be due for another week and I had Heidi on the 8th of March 2006 and then Chloe was WAY to early and was born on the 8th of July 2007. Both on the 8th and I think a certain someone had something to do with that. Losing someone makes you question everything you have ever believed in, but you know what? I have stopped and just relised that everything happens for a reason, why that reason is I truly have NO idea, but Shane was an organ donor and saved lives and while losing him doesn’t make that any easier, he would be so proud to know he helped save lives as he always loved to give and make someones day…..
You want to know what else?! You have a chance to WIN him for yourself…. HERE….. I wasn’t going to have him as a give away, but I know he would had loved to think he made another persons day…..
Thank you for reading a bit about my brother…..
Shane 30.09.1985 – 03.05.2003


















































